How do I get my wife back - this question is constantly nagging at you. Even though you've had your fair share of problems, you know in your heart that the two of you belong together. When you can honestly say that, then you CAN get her back.
Sometimes marriages take a wrong turn - two people that love each other very much can encounter a problem that will eventually destroy their marriage. It happens to a lot of couples, at one time or another. Sometimes these couples think that the only option is divorce. Even though you have struggled through a divorce, you CAN get back together again!
This may sound offbeat to you right now, but carefully think about what I am going to say to you, and you will understand why I say it.
When you ask 'How do I get my wife back', you first must leave her alone. The absolute worst thing you can do is to keep trying to talk to her, when she doesn't want to talk to you.
You have both suffered pain, and many times women take longer to heal from that pain. When you give her the time she needs to heal, you will have a much better chance of getting back together with her again.
Think about it - when you are constantly hounding her, all she is thinking about is getting away from you. Right?
What is going to happen when you DON'T try to contact her constantly? She is going to have time to think - and, chances are very good that she will start to remember the good things about your marriage, and she will start to miss you!
When she starts to miss you, she will try to contact YOU! By allowing her the time she needs to think, and remember, you WILL be able to get her back.
In the meantime, you have to remember to take care of yourself. Even though you may not want to, you should go out with your buddies for a while. Get yourself out of the surroundings that are constantly reminding you of her.
Do things you like to do - go fishing, camping, bowling, etc. Start a hobby to take your mind off of things. Get a haircut or some new clothes. This will bring back your self esteem. It is very important that you feel good about yourself! You are a great person!