Marriage and divorce both are life changing experience. Marriage is an occasion full of enjoyment and fun where as divorce is a process full of sorrow and pain. If the reasons of divorce are infidelity or lack of commitment in marriage then even divorce gets very tough to go through. Starting life alone after living with a person for years can be difficult but then you need to move on and re start your life. Divorce gets difficult for people to come out. One needs to understand this that divorce is a process and not a crisis. Getting out of the crisis mode will help you a lot in moving on in life.
If you get child custody in divorce, then your children becomes the top priority of life. You need to do things that can match up to the best interest of the children. Children often get affected by divorce. You need to make sure that your children come out of the divorce mode and starts leading their life again in a normal way. In order to do so , you can also take help from child psychologist that will help you understand the behavior changes in the children and take necessary steps to help the children.
People often tend to get back into relation after divorce . You need to take time to analyze what went wrong in your marriage or what all mistakes you made in it. What happens is that once you get out of a marriage and start looking for someone, you will end up finding a person who would be a xerox copy of your ex spouse , thus giving birth to the vicious cycle of marriage, divorce and remarriage.